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Prepared for Charles M. | Delivered July 12, 2019
How to be a Dominant Male Lover
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Goals
You'd like to know how to be a dominant male lover to a submissive female partner. The points you'd like us to cover include:
Quick guides to the activity
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Understanding the physiology and fantasies of submissive female partners.
How to write successful messages to submissive female potential partners online.
Finding an online
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Early Findings
BEING A DOMINANT LOVER
Studies have shown that most women are more attracted to a
dominant man
and will actively seek out one.
Being a dominant lover requires a
commanding and authoritative
personality while also being generous to your significant other. Women want a dominant partner that still
treats them well.
HOW TO BE A DOMINANT LOVER
The first step to being a
dominant love
r includes being open, honest, and mature about your kinks in and out of the bedroom.
Next is confidence. To be a dominant lover, you have to be
confident enough
to take control of any situation and you need to "adopt the ideology that
mistakes are unacceptable."
A good dominant lover pushes the boundaries and limits of his submissive partner without breaking them or
going too fa
r. You should push them hard enough that they yearn for you.
Being a dominant lover means being a gentleman first and always making everything about your female partner. Every decision you make "needs to be the best choice for her, often this requires
you to be selfless."
FANTASIES OF SUBMISSIVE FEMALE PARTNERS
The most popular fantasies that submissive women have,
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"simply giving in to the desires of a
dominant man
" and BDSM.
Submission fantasies
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particularly extreme ones like rape and sexual assualt
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are supposedly an internalization of "
extreme expression
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aggression and violence, and a
guilt mechanism
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However, real-life power struggles are not reflected in these fantasies. This means women who fantasize about (consensual) rape/ sexual assault in the bedroom do not necessarily want to be hurt or raped in real life.
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