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Prepared for Chris W. | Delivered September 19, 2019
Modern Day Harems
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Goals
To identify people who have built modern day harems to understand how they have been able to succeed and how to build one legally.
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Early Findings
Modern-day examples of "harems" are less plentiful, as the practice is generally frowned-upon in modern society. The most well-known examples, Hefner and
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, have already been covered. However, we were able to find a few more by casting our net to find some more controversial figures from around the world.
THE PRINCE AND SULTAN OF BRUNEI
Prince
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of Brunei reportedly had around 30-40 women, some younger than 16 years old. One woman, Jillian Lauren, published a memoir of her experience living with the prince, called Some Girls: My Life in a Harem.
The Prince is
well-known
for his extremely conspicuous consumption, reportedly going through billions in spending.
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owned
250
companies, 2,000 cars, hotels, airplanes and jewels. He was mostly funded by his brother, the Sultan of Brunei, until a fight led them to a
publicly nasty
court battle in 2011.
He was also
accused
of embezzling from the government of Brunei during his appointment as Finance Minister.
Reportedly, the Sultan and
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both
shared
an extremely hedonistic lifestyle. While technically only allowed 4 wives under Muslim law, they frequently abandoned their official marriages and apparently sent trusted advisers "
to comb the globe
for the sexiest women they could find in order to create a harem the likes of which the world had never known."
The brothers were frowned upon by the third
B
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brother,
Mohamed
, who followed a more traditional lifestyle with one wife and modest living.
Additionally, one of the women the brothers recruited, formed
Miss USA Shannon
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, sued them each for $10 million claiming she was effectively held prisoner (her passport was seized) and forced to attend parties and undergo frequently STD testing. The suit was dismissed, as the sovereign family had immunity.
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, it did result in less Western women being invited.
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insisted the women call him Robin.
Aside from coercive, illegal methods to keep women close to him,
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also
showered them
with expensive gifts, paid off their expenses back home and offered them cosmetic surgery.
The Prince has been
lying low
since the legal tangle in 2011, though he has reportedly reconciled with the Sultan. He reportedly still continues his lavish lifestyle, though since there are no media reports on his harem, he has gone quiet about it.
KING MSWATI III
The absolute monarch of Swaziland,
King
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III
, is known to have at least
15
wives.
He has a reputation for his
extremely lavish
lifestyle, which is controversial as many citizens of the country are starving. His household budget tops
$61 million
, and he is said to be worth over $200 million despite the extreme poverty of the country.
Before him, Mswati's father reportedly had
125 wives
(he has passed away, so we will not cover him here), so in this instance that is clearly where Mswati's influence came from.
Mswati has been
accused of
kidnapping women he desires for his harem, but this has not been proven.
KING MAHA VAJIRALONGKORN
Thailand's king
made the news
just last month by being the first ruler to officially practice polygamy in almost a century. He annointed one of his mistress as an offical consort.
The king has already been
married three times
previously and is known for his penchant for women.
Not much is known
about the King's exact activities with women, as there is a Thai law and press restrictions against criticizing the monarch.
ADNAN KHASHOGGI
The Saudi arms broker reportedly had at least 11 "
pleasure wives
" whom he rewarded with a life of absolutely luxury,
One of these women, Jill Dodd,
stated
the arrangement was completely consensual, unlike our previous examples.
Dodd was
recruited
when, "Khashoggi, who died in June aged 81, first seduced her by writing his name in blood on her arm in a French nightclub and then whisked her away to his Saudi palace where he installed her in a compound comprising of several suites and cottages occupied by members of his modern day harem."
She later
left Khashoggi
amicably, and they continued to be friends after.
Dodd
states
it was a typical relationship of beautiful younger women with a rich, powerful older man who can financially maintain a certain lifestyle.
ANALYSIS
Similar to the previous research, most of these 'harems' are formed around rich, powerful men, usually older. They lavash their chosen women with gifts and certain lifestyle. While some are marred by illegal, coercive practices to keep women close, others (like Hefner and Khashoggi) are entirely consentual arrangements where women are attracted to the riches and power.
All the men found so far are extremely wealthy and usually already in a position of international power and/or fame (either a monarch, relative of a monarch or extremely powerful businessman).
The women are usually young, attractive, and relatively well-educated (the ones we know of, anyway). They come from quintessientially "good" backgrounds before following these men.
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